My ex-husband has recently started taking estrogen on his way to transitioning to being a woman. We have four children. When is an appropriate time to talk to children about the changes?
By -- Mar 16, 2022
That depends on the age of the children. It will be some time, perhaps as long as 6 months to a year before there are any visible signs of the transition. I would not say anything until the children begin to ask for answers. Then I would tell them an age appropriate amount of information. Keep in mind that children under 5 take the news almost without comment while older children will ask some questions that should be answered honestly and in a matter of fact way.